As the end of the year gets packed, we all have different things we’re not going to do. We might decide not to see every single person we know and love, or we might decide that we don’t need to be the last person standing at every party we attend. There is no point feeling guilty or worrying about not being part of the crazy fun thing that happened, for example, if you choose to lie low. It’s like the opposite of a New Year’s resolution — and decidedly more doable as a result.