Every new parent instantly learns that feeding is paramount. It’s entwined with sleep, soothing, the fundamental process of becoming attuned to your baby. Perhaps that’s why breastfeeding, whatever its pluses, can kick off an undesirable, often stubborn imbalance between parents, one that extends beyond the act of feeding. So in an age when the vast majority of parents support the concept of equal parenting (even as dads still don’t share the load equally), why don’t we openly discuss one of the best ways to avoid that imbalance?