Brooke Molyneaux, another skinny influencer, has a similar philosophy: Food, she says, shouldn’t be your boss, telling you what to do or how to feel. The same goes for Amanda Dobler, a “fat-loss and mind-set coach” whose goal is to “teach women how to stop obsessing over food” without, as she advertises on her website, “overthinking every meal” or “tracking every bite.” You can hear something similar from plenty of other women, all found nibbling pastries and pushing pasta around their plates, telling you with affectless calm to eat whatever you want — just not that much of it.